Veteran Nollywood actress, Bimbo Akintola, has shared her deeply personal reasons for choosing to remain unmarried, despite societal pressures and expectations. At 54, the actress revealed that the death of her soulmate has left her without the desire to remarry, a decision she has come to peace with over the years.
In an emotional interview with fellow actor Emmanuel Ehumadu, also known as Labista, Akintola opened up about the heartbreak of losing the love of her life and how it has shaped her views on marriage and relationships. Her story has struck a chord with many, as she reflects on love, loss, and the strength to live life on her own terms.
When asked by Ehumadu why she remains unmarried, Akintola responded with a simple but heartbreaking statement: “He died.” The actress went on to explain that her soulmate, the one person she felt she could spend her life with, had passed away. The pain of that loss has been a defining factor in her decision not to marry again.
“I don’t talk about it often, but he’s gone,” Akintola said. “It took me a very long time to find him, and now he’s gone. I haven’t found anyone else like him, and I don’t think I ever will.”
Her voice carried the weight of someone who has experienced deep love but also profound loss. For Akintola, the idea of replacing that kind of connection seems impossible. She admitted that while people can fall in love more than once, the bond she had with her late partner was something rare and special.
In a society where women, particularly those in the public eye, are often expected to marry by a certain age, Akintola’s choice to remain single has drawn attention. Many women face intense pressure to marry, and Akintola’s story offers a refreshing perspective on staying true to oneself, even when it defies cultural expectations.
Akintola made it clear that she will not marry just to satisfy societal norms or make others happy. She emphasized that marriage is a serious commitment and should not be entered into lightly or for the wrong reasons.
“I don’t believe in getting married just for the sake of marriage,” she said. “If you’re not going to be truthful to your vows, then why are you doing it? I can’t imagine making a ‘forever’ commitment to someone who isn’t equally dedicated.”
Her words reflect a strong belief in authenticity, a value that Akintola holds close to her heart. She has seen too many people rush into marriages that fail because they were not built on a foundation of true love and mutual respect. For her, it’s not worth the risk.
At 54, Akintola feels more confident in her choices than ever before. She explained that, with age, she has gained a better understanding of relationships and can recognize red flags that she might have overlooked when she was younger. This self-awareness has given her the courage to reject societal expectations and live life on her own terms.
“I’m too old to ignore red flags,” she said with a laugh. “I’m not going to force myself into a marriage just because people expect it of me. I know what makes me happy, and I’m not willing to sacrifice that for anyone.”
Akintola spoke passionately about the importance of being true to oneself, particularly as one gets older. She noted that people often make life choices to please others, but she refuses to do that. For her, the most important thing is being honest with herself and living a life that feels authentic.
“I live my life in all truthfulness,” she said. “At the end of the day, when you stand before God, it’s just you and Him. No one else is going to answer for the choices you made, so you have to live in a way that’s true to yourself.”
As a public figure, Akintola’s personal life has often been the subject of scrutiny. Fans and the media have frequently speculated about her marital status, but the actress has always kept her private life out of the spotlight. However, in this recent interview, she opened up in a way that few expected, shedding light on the emotional reasons behind her decision to stay unmarried.
Akintola acknowledged that being a woman in the entertainment industry comes with unique pressures. Women are often judged by their marital status, and those who remain unmarried into their 40s and 50s are frequently met with questions and assumptions. But Akintola has never let those external pressures dictate her choices.
“I don’t care what people say,” she declared. “I’m not going to marry someone just so the world can say, ‘Oh, she’s finally done it.’ It doesn’t make sense to me, and I’m not going to stress myself out for anyone else’s expectations.”
Her defiance against societal pressure is empowering, especially for other women who might feel trapped by expectations. Akintola’s message is clear: happiness comes from within, and no one should feel forced to meet the world’s standards if they don’t align with their own values.
Despite her firm stance on not marrying for the sake of it, Akintola is not entirely closed off to the idea of love. She admitted that if she ever met someone with whom she could see a future, she would be open to remarrying, no matter her age.
“If I find someone I can spend forever with, I’ll marry him,” she said. “Even if I’m 82, I’ll do it. But I’m not going to do it unless it feels right.”
