Popular Nigerian TikTok streamer and content creator Jarvis has opened up about challenges in her relationship with fellow streamer Peller, saying she has had to compromise her values to keep the peace.
During a live TikTok session with fellow influencer Sandra Benede, Jarvis revealed that she often does things she dislikes online just to please Peller, even when it goes against her personal brand.
“In the beginning, it was difficult accepting his character. Now I have tolerated so many things that do not suit my brand, things I don’t like doing, things I haven’t done, but I have done it with him online,” she said.
Jarvis also expressed frustration over the way the public views their relationship. She feels she is losing value and respect, while Peller faces little or no backlash.
“Who is losing value? Is it me or him? Na woman go dey lose value now, man dey lose value? He can go to his village tomorrow and marry one of his Ikorodu sisters, life moves on. But the lady is the one that will be disgraced,” she lamented.
She added that some people accuse her of competing with Peller, suggesting that she should not be doing the same things he does.
Jarvis’ candid confession highlights the pressures and double standards women often face in public relationships.
