The mother of Big Brother Naija (BBNaija) season 10 winner, Imisi Ayanwale, has sparked fresh speculation about a family rift after revealing that her daughter allegedly does not want to see her. The revelation came in a recent TikTok video, where she also expressed gratitude to her community in Ebute-Metta, Lagos, her church, and friends who supported Imisi during her time on the reality show.
In the video, the mother, who asked to be identified only as Mrs. Ayanwale, said she was grateful for the support she received but also shared her disappointment at being reportedly rejected by her daughter after the show.
“I want to sincerely appreciate all those who stood by me during Imisi’s time on Big Brother. My friends, everyone in Ebute-Metta, the church, I am so grateful. I am at my younger one’s place in Ajah; some people do not want us to come and visit them,” she said.
She added, “…people who said I did not take care of my child, thank you all for what you said. I was running around to ensure that my daughter wins, that she should become someone in life, so that she can take me, her mother, out of poverty.”
The mother’s revelation that her daughter allegedly refuses to see her has raised questions about the nature of their relationship. “She said she does not want to see me wherever she is, is it that serious? There is still a lot to talk about,” she added.
Mrs. Ayanwale also accused the show’s organisers of sidelining her during the BBNaija finale. She said she was not informed about the timing of the final and was only called to prepare a few minutes before the event.
“On the day of the BBNaija finale, I was not even told that it was the final. It was around a few minutes to 4 pm that they called me to start dressing up, and that I should wear something presentable. I was even taken somewhere else initially,” she claimed.
The mother’s account points to a possible breakdown in communication between her family and the reality show organisers. She further suggested that her exclusion may have contributed to tensions within the family.
The public disclosure of the strained relationship between Imisi and her mother adds a new layer to a story that has long been marked by personal tragedy. During her time on BBNaija, Imisi spoke openly about her troubled childhood. She revealed that she was sent out of her parents’ house at the age of 12, an experience she described as traumatic.
According to Imisi, after being sent away, she sought shelter in a church storeroom, where she was reportedly raped. These revelations shocked the Nigerian public and highlighted the challenges she faced before her rise to fame.
The mother’s recent TikTok post reignites discussion about the circumstances surrounding Imisi’s upbringing and the events that followed. Many social media users have expressed concern, suggesting that the ongoing tension between mother and daughter may require professional intervention.
Mrs. Ayanwale’s statements reflect a mix of gratitude and frustration. While she appreciates the support from her friends, church, and community, she also highlights the personal pain she has endured since her daughter’s victory on the show. She hinted that more details about the family’s struggles may emerge in the future, saying, “There is still a lot to talk about.”
Family members and close associates of BBNaija contestants often face scrutiny during and after the show. In Imisi’s case, the mother’s statements have drawn widespread attention, reminding Nigerians that reality TV success does not always translate into personal harmony at home.
The story has also sparked conversations about parental responsibility, family reconciliation, and the impact of fame on personal relationships. Experts say that sudden public exposure, such as winning a reality show, can intensify pre-existing family conflicts and put pressure on both parents and children.
Social media users have since called for calm and understanding, urging both Imisi and her mother to resolve their differences privately. While Mrs. Ayanwale has voiced her grievances publicly, she has not indicated whether she plans to reach out directly to her daughter to mend the relationship.
Imisi’s journey from a challenging childhood to national stardom exemplifies resilience and determination. However, her mother’s recent revelations show that even as stars rise in the public eye, private struggles can remain deeply felt and complex.
