Popular Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo has drawn public attention after declaring herself the President General of the Single Mothers’ Association. The announcement was made during the birthday celebration of fellow actress Lola Alao and has since gone viral on social media.
In a video shared widely online, Iyabo Ojo spoke confidently and proudly about single motherhood, saying the days when it was seen as a stigma are over. Her words sparked conversations across Nigeria, with many people praising her message while others debated the informal nature of the declaration.
The actress made the statement while addressing guests at the event, which was attended by several Nollywood stars and entertainment industry figures. Speaking openly, Iyabo Ojo celebrated the strength, resilience, and achievements of single mothers in today’s society.
“Gone are the days that being a single mother was a stigma,” she said in the video. Her words were greeted with cheers and laughter from the audience, many of whom appeared to agree with her message.
Iyabo Ojo went on to praise single mothers for raising successful children and contributing positively to society. According to her, many children raised by single mothers are now doing great things in different fields, including entertainment, business, and education.
“Single mothers’ children are now doing great things in our society,” she said. “We are proud of them, and we are proud of ourselves.”
The actress also spoke about changing attitudes toward single mothers, especially in relationships and marriage. She said that unlike in the past, when single mothers were often looked down upon or judged harshly, many men now value them for their life experience and strength.
“Now, men are chasing and even begging us, the single mothers, that they want to marry us as a wife and not side chick,” Iyabo Ojo said. She added that life experience has made single mothers stronger and more confident in relationships.
In a message meant to encourage women, she added, “If a man leaves you, another man will accept you.” She then ended her speech by announcing, half-jokingly but confidently, “I’m now the President General of the Single Mothers Association.”
While the declaration was not tied to any officially registered group, many of her fans saw it as a symbolic move meant to encourage and empower single mothers across the country. Social media users quickly reacted to the video, with many praising Iyabo Ojo for speaking boldly about an issue that affects millions of Nigerian women.
Iyabo Ojo is one of Nollywood’s most outspoken actresses. Over the years, she has been vocal about women’s rights, parenting, and social issues. She is also a single mother herself, raising two children who are now adults. Her daughter, Priscilla Ojo, is a popular social media influencer and brand ambassador, while her son is also active in creative pursuits.
Her personal journey has often been used by fans as an example of how single mothers can succeed despite challenges. Iyabo Ojo has frequently spoken about the difficulties she faced raising her children alone, as well as the pride she feels in their achievements.
In Nigeria, single motherhood has long carried social stigma. Many women who raise children on their own face judgment, discrimination, and economic hardship. Cultural and religious beliefs in some communities often place blame on women for failed marriages or relationships, regardless of the circumstances.
Celebrities in Nollywood and the music industry have increasingly used their platforms to address social issues, including gender equality, mental health, and family life. Iyabo Ojo’s statement fits into this broader trend of public figures using personal stories to inspire others.
Lola Alao’s birthday party, where the declaration was made, was itself a gathering of Nollywood veterans and younger stars. The relaxed setting may have contributed to the open and humorous tone of Iyabo Ojo’s speech. Still, many listeners felt her message carried a deeper meaning beyond entertainment.
Some women on social media described her words as empowering, saying they felt seen and encouraged. Others said the message helped reduce shame around single motherhood and reminded women that their value is not tied to marital status.
Still, the conversation it has sparked highlights ongoing discussions about women’s rights, family structures, and social acceptance in Nigeria. Many observers say such conversations are important in a society where traditional values and modern realities often clash.
Single mothers in Nigeria continue to face challenges, including limited access to financial support, childcare, and legal protection. Advocacy groups have called for stronger social policies to support single-parent families, including better access to education, healthcare, and employment opportunities.
By speaking openly and confidently, Iyabo Ojo has once again placed herself at the center of public debate. Whether seen as a lighthearted moment or a serious statement, her words have resonated with many Nigerians.