Nigerian billionaire and business mogul, Femi Otedola, has advised his daughter, Temi Otedola, to honour and respect her husband, musician Tosin Ajibade (popularly known as Mr Eazi), describing him as her “boss” in marriage.
Otedola gave the heartfelt advice during an emotional speech at the wedding ceremony of the couple, which has captured the attention of Nigerians both online and offline.
In his father-of-the-bride speech, Otedola praised the young couple’s love for each other, while also giving words of wisdom on how to sustain their marriage. He expressed his joy over the union and described Mr Eazi as a great man from a good background.
“You found a great guy, very great guy, blessed guy. He’s come from a very decent family,” Otedola said.
But it was his next words that stirred conversation. He told Temi that marriage comes with new responsibilities and that she must now put her husband first.
“One thing I’ll advise you… you have to succumb to the whims and caprices of your husband. Okay? He’s your husband, he’s your boss. There’s no more dad, don’t call me up,” he added, drawing both laughter and applause from guests.
Temi Otedola, a well-known actress and fashion entrepreneur, and Mr Eazi, an international music star and tech entrepreneur, have been together for several years. Their relationship has often been praised for its maturity, simplicity, and mutual respect.
Speaking further, Otedola said he admires the deep love and connection between the two, which he believes is genuine.
“One thing I like about both of you, and I’ve observed, is that you’re truly in love with each other. Truly, truly in love with each other,” he noted.
Otedola highlighted the fact that both Temi and Mr Eazi are entrepreneurs and share the same drive and ambition. He described their union as “made in heaven” and expressed confidence that they will go far together.
“Tosin, you’re going to go places. I’ve seen the entrepreneurial skill in you. When we were much younger, we used to think we were hustlers, but not like your generation. You are hustlers — real hustlers — and it’s always paid off. Continue to love Temi,” he added.
In a more serious tone, the billionaire advised the couple to be careful with how they handle disagreements. He urged them to protect their marriage by resolving issues privately and not involving outsiders.
“When you have issues, problems, just keep it within yourself. Never call any friend that you have this problem. Just keep it within your walls. And God will bless you and bless your marriage,” he said.
Otedola’s message reflects traditional values on marriage, where the wife is often expected to submit to the husband. While some Nigerians have praised his message as a fatherly guide rooted in love and wisdom, others have questioned the idea of calling one’s husband a “boss.”
The wedding, which was attended by family, close friends, and public figures, has been trending on social media, with clips from Otedola’s speech going viral.
This high-profile wedding brings together two influential young Nigerians from prominent families and careers. Temi is the daughter of one of Africa’s richest men, while Mr Eazi is a global music figure and businessman in the entertainment and tech industries.
As the newlyweds begin their journey together, many Nigerians are wishing them a happy married life.
