A short moment involving Oyo State Governor, Seyi Makinde, and his wife, Mrs Tamunominini Makinde, has sparked public discussion after a video from a state event showed the governor declining a public kiss from his wife.
The incident happened on Wednesday, February 5, during a dinner and award night organized as part of activities to mark the 50th anniversary of Oyo State. The event, which brought together government officials, traditional rulers, business leaders, and guests from across the state, was meant to celebrate Oyo’s history, development, and achievements since its creation in 1976.
In the widely shared video, Mrs Makinde was seen leaning forward as if to kiss the governor while they were seated at the event. Governor Makinde, however, turned his face away, avoiding the kiss. The brief moment was captured on camera and quickly circulated on social media platforms.
Observers also noted a visible change in the First Lady’s expression shortly after the incident, with many viewers interpreting her reaction as disappointment. The clip lasted only a few seconds, but it was enough to trigger mixed reactions online.
Following the release of the video, Nigerians took to social media to share their views. While some criticised the governor, describing his action as embarrassing or unnecessary, others defended him, saying public officials are not obligated to display affection in public.
Some supporters argued that Governor Makinde may have chosen to maintain a formal appearance at an official state function, especially one attended by elders, dignitaries, and traditional leaders. Others pointed out that personal moments between couples should not be judged based on short video clips.
“There is nothing wrong with a man choosing not to kiss in public,” one social media user wrote. “Not everyone is comfortable with public displays of affection.”
On the other hand, critics said the moment could have been handled more gently to avoid public misunderstanding, especially given the attention that comes with holding public office.
Governor Seyi Makinde has been married to Tamunominini Makinde for several years, and the couple is often seen together at public events in the state. Mrs Makinde is known for her involvement in women-focused and child welfare programmes through her office as First Lady.
The governor, currently serving his second term, is widely regarded as one of the key political figures in the South-West. His administration has focused on infrastructure development, education, healthcare, and security in Oyo State.
Public interest in the personal lives of political leaders is common in Nigeria, especially when moments are caught on camera at official events. However, such incidents often raise questions about privacy and the pressure placed on public figures to meet public expectations beyond their official duties.
Despite the online reactions, many observers have urged the public not to allow the brief incident to overshadow the purpose of the event. The dinner and award night was part of a series of activities marking 50 years of Oyo State’s existence, celebrating progress made in governance, culture, and economic growth.
