Popular Nigerian social media personality and herbal products seller, Eniola Fagbemi, widely known as Sisi Alagbo, has publicly apologised following the circulation of a private video involving herself, her husband, and another woman.
The video, which began trending online earlier this week, quickly went viral across various social media platforms, sparking widespread reactions from Nigerians. While some users expressed shock and disappointment, others criticised the individuals involved and questioned the circumstances surrounding the recording.
According to reports circulating online, the video was allegedly shared by her husband, Adesola Hakeem, in a private group chat before it was leaked to the public. However, details about how the footage spread beyond the private space remain unclear, and no official confirmation has been provided regarding the exact source of the leak.
In a post shared on her verified Facebook page on Wednesday, Fagbemi took responsibility for her actions and appealed to the public for understanding. She expressed deep regret over the incident and acknowledged the disappointment felt by many of her followers.
“I own my mistakes, and I apologise with all sincerity for the video circulating online. I am deeply sorry to everyone who felt disappointed in me,” she wrote.
The influencer, who has built a large following through the promotion and sale of herbal mixtures on social media, said the incident has taken a serious toll on her mental and emotional well-being. She revealed that she has been unable to eat or sleep since the video surfaced and is struggling to cope with the backlash.
“This is a great phase for me, and I pray for God’s forgiveness and my fans’ forgiveness. Please let’s move on past this because this media is where I get little support to feed,” she added.
Fagbemi further pleaded with her followers not to condemn or attack her, saying she is already going through a difficult time. She also disclosed that even medication has not helped her sleep, highlighting the level of distress she has experienced since the controversy began.
“I can’t eat or sleep for days, even sleeping meds aren’t working for me anymore. I am deeply sorry, everyone. Please forgive me. I don’t want to injure myself. It’s only the little strength I have,” she wrote.
The incident has once again brought attention to the risks associated with sharing private content, even within trusted circles. Experts have often warned that once such materials are recorded and shared digitally, controlling their spread can become almost impossible, especially in the age of instant messaging and social media.
In Nigeria, cases of leaked private videos have become more common in recent years, often leading to public embarrassment, reputational damage, and emotional distress for those involved. Victims of such leaks frequently face harsh criticism online, with little regard for their privacy or mental health.
The controversy surrounding Sisi Alagbo has also sparked conversations about morality, personal choices, and the role of social media in amplifying private matters. While some Nigerians insist that public figures should be held to higher standards, others argue that individuals deserve privacy regardless of their status.
For Fagbemi, whose business depends largely on her online presence, the backlash could have significant consequences. Many influencers rely on public trust and reputation to maintain their customer base, and controversies of this nature can affect both their image and income.
As reactions continue to trail the incident, some supporters have called for empathy, urging Nigerians to avoid cyberbullying and to consider the human impact of online criticism. Others, however, maintain that public figures must take responsibility for their actions and the consequences that follow.
Despite the ongoing debate, Fagbemi’s apology signals an attempt to move forward from the controversy. Whether the public will accept her apology and allow her to rebuild her image remains to be seen.