In what promises to be one of the most talked-about events of 2025, Dr. Arube Otor, the iconic Isoko highlife musician, is preparing for a wedding like no other, set to take place in Delta State. The renowned artist, who has been a fixture in Delta’s vibrant music scene for over three decades, will marry three women on the same day in a grand cultural celebration that blends tradition, music, and community.
A Ceremony of Tradition and Legacy
The wedding announcement has taken the internet by storm, with a flier featuring Dr. Arube dressed in a traditional Isoko attire alongside his three brides: Oghenekome, Ewoma, and Oghenekaro. All three women hail from the same region as Arube, making the ceremony a momentous occasion for both the local community and the music industry.
Details of the event were shared by Dr. Arube’s foster son, Emperor Efih (popularly known as Oscar), who serves as one of the key organisers. Efih, who has long been associated with his father’s musical career, confirmed that while the original plan involved four brides, one woman had to withdraw due to personal reasons, leaving three brides for the highly anticipated wedding.
“This wedding is going to be a blend of our Isoko culture and modern-day music,” Efih said in an interview with News360 Nigeria. “The idea was initially to have four brides, but one had to pull out at the last minute, so we are proceeding with three. The event will be an unforgettable cultural spectacle.”
A Life Spent in Music and Love
Dr. Arube Otor’s decision to marry three women at once may raise eyebrows, but it is rooted in a personal history of love, loss, and resilience. Efih provided some insight into his father’s past, revealing that Arube’s journey through relationships has been anything but conventional. Over 20 years ago, Arube married two women, but after one divorce, he was left with just one wife.
Now, in an unexpected twist, he has decided to marry three women in one go, a decision that, according to Efih, was partly driven by financial considerations. “To cut costs, my father decided to marry four women this year. But as fate would have it, one of the brides had to pull out,” Efih shared.
For many, the unusual nature of the wedding might seem extravagant, but for Dr. Arube, it is simply another chapter in his rich, multifaceted life. As a man who once balanced his passion for music with a job as a driver, Arube’s story is one of perseverance and reinvention.
Arube’s Musical Journey: From Driver to Icon
Born and raised in the heart of Delta State, Dr. Arube Otor’s rise to fame in the Isoko highlife scene is nothing short of remarkable. Beginning his career as a driver, he was always drawn to music and eventually formed his first band, which marked the beginning of his legendary journey.
“The band I started had several members, but after we parted ways, I formed my own dance band, Arube, 12 years ago,” he said during a recent interview. “That’s when my music truly began to reach wider audiences. Since then, I’ve been lucky enough to release more than 10 albums, and I’m proud to say I have a loyal following across the country.”
For Dr. Arube, music has always been more than just a career—it’s been a way of life. As one of Delta’s most respected musicians, his influence stretches far beyond the Isoko community. His songs, rich in cultural narratives and danceable rhythms, have become anthems for many, embodying the spirit of the region.
Despite the challenges he has faced in his personal life, including his failed marriage and the difficulties of keeping a band together, Dr. Arube’s passion for his craft and his unwavering commitment to his culture have allowed him to endure.
“He’s a man who knows how to juggle both worlds—family and career,” said Efih. “His music speaks of the Isoko experience, and his personal life reflects the same resilience that defines his art.”
A Wedding to Remember
The upcoming wedding, which is expected to draw large crowds, promises to be an unforgettable spectacle, combining Arube’s musical performances with traditional Isoko rituals. The ceremony will take place in a grand venue in Delta State, and guests from across the country are expected to attend, with some already calling it “the wedding of the decade.”
Arube’s music will be at the heart of the event, with special performances planned throughout the ceremony. “We want this wedding to be a celebration of both culture and music. The wedding will be filled with music, dancing, and joy,” Efih revealed.
In addition to his musical career, Arube’s contributions to the cultural heritage of Delta State have earned him the title of a local legend. Over the years, he has mentored many young musicians and remains a beloved figure in the state’s arts community.
Isoko Music: A Cultural Reflection
Isoko highlife music, a genre that blends traditional sounds with modern influences, has played a crucial role in shaping the cultural landscape of the region. Artists like Dr. Arube have been instrumental in preserving this musical form, infusing it with stories and themes that resonate with both older and younger generations.